Do you want to attract abundance and riches, not only in money, but in love, spirituality, health, family values, friends, charity, growth, and contribution? You first have to look at your thought patterns around abundance and how you attracting these things in your life.
Let’s say you’re focused on money and your wife is always harping on paying bills and her attraction is scarcity. Most people that are trying to create abundance get caught up in the scarcity attraction. They might say something like, “Why are you always nagging me? I’m pissed off now, etc.” And now, at a high emotional intensity, you are in their attraction of scarcity. In order to counteract that, most people try to change their partner. You have to stop thinking about it or you do it with love because you allow them to have their attraction. If they want to attract scarcity, let them attract scarcity. It’s part of their karma, it’s part of their attraction pattern. The problem is when you focus on “I don’t want to be like them.” That’s attracting them and their attractions. All the things you do that relates to them attracts them.
When you are abundant, money is a byproduct. It starts with love, joy, and happiness. Abundance is about abundance, it’s not about scarcity. When you give it away guess what flows in? It’s wild crazy. You’ll have more friends, more moments with strangers where people touch your life and you touch theirs than you ever dreamed possible. Abundance is a state of being.
Name one model outside of humanity anywhere in this universe that life is scarce and frugal. Here’s the sad thing about frugality. Are you channeling energy through you? One of the neat things about being wealthy and abundant is you get to enable others wherever you go. If you give a $20 tip on dinner and it’s only supposed to be $10 because you got money to give and you tell your waiter “I love your energy, it’s amazing,” whether he discredits that or records that he has to work really hard, the point is you are channeling abundance.
Selfishness is really about scarcity. Abundance is about giving it away, not about it coming back. It’s flow, you give it away and mysteriously it appears in a bigger quantity… the action that begins abundance begins with the act of giving away… if you are focused on what you get, that triggers scarcity.
When you say “I don’t want to lose what I have” what’s the attraction pattern? What’s your brain focused on when it’s asking this intense question? You are focused on how you are not going to lose it. When you are in that energy state is where you trip yourself up and begin to attract what you don’t want. You begin to attract losing it or that holding onto it is more difficult. When you attract and create that everything you have is easy for you, and the more you have the more you give away and the more it flows through you, the easier it becomes.
Bring in more love, more gratitude, and more passion. Fill each moment until it is completely running over so the entire area is saturated in your fire, your vibration and frequency, of what you want to attract and create.