The Law of Attraction(LOA) says there is nothing, nothing, and no exceptions, nothing in your life today that you did not attract (meaning you asked for it, believed in it and received it.)
This is really tough for some people because they go, “No way did I ask for that! I did not want that to happen to me. I don’t want that pain. I don’t want that.” Because they do not want something is the very driver and generator of that very thing being present in their life. They do not sit there and go, “Here’s what I DO want” with the same intensity.
In the deepest levels of LOA, one of the places that people have problems with, for example, is “I got mugged.” “Well, how could you say I attracted a tsunami or a disaster?” The fact of the matter is when you look at very powerful attractors they are the ones that were supposed to be at the tsunami or they missed their plane or they were supposed to be somewhere where bad juju was supposed to happen and some mysterious way they weren’t.
I was with a buddy of mine and he was talking about a classmate who was working in the World Trade Center towers and several weeks before was diagnosed with cancer. His first chemo date was 9/11. For two weeks he was very depressed, how did he get cancer? He realized cancer saved his life. If he didn’t have chemo he would have been on the 104th floor that day. So, there are people that say this is bs, he just had cancer and there is no connection, and other people, like me, say, no. He attracted his power.
I was working with a company and one woman got furious with me. She said my dad was the most amazing man, full of joy. You cannot tell me he attracted his cancer that killed him. I refuse to believe it. Here’s what I told her, anytime we get people in the bell curve of evidence, people will go to the baby that was murdered and say “you will not tell me that baby attracted that.”
Are you asking the question because you really understand the LOA and you are seeking a higher level of understanding and you want to know how the LOA works in the extreme? Are you looking for the most ridiculous thing to invalidate the law so you can discount the other 99% of the time, meaning you didn’t get the promotion that you claimed you wanted or the diet that failed that you claimed you worked your ass off for or all the other shit in your life that you don’t have – are you asking me this question so you can feel good about the 99% of the things in your life that you don’t have? Or do you really get this 99% because we look at this and it’s all very clear cut and straight forward whether you are looking at it from a neural chemistry perspective, or an energy perspective, or religious perspective, and you really want to know the answer to this? Or is this just about discounting the facts so that you don’t have to wake up tomorrow and be challenged to change your life at all?
And the answer is most people look for ways to discount.
Follow these five steps to any LOA moment, anything you want to create for yourself. These five steps are easy steps. We follow these steps a lot of times unconsciously. I want you to take these five steps and apply them to something consciously.
Step 1. Know what you want
Step 2. Know why it’s a must
Step 3. Take massive action
Step 4. Have sensory awareness to your results
Step 5. Change your approach
Exercise: pick something, a problem or a challenge that has some meat to it and that you will consciously step through these five steps and go “what is it we want in the face of this problem, is it the standard that we want it to, do we know why we have to solve this problem? What’s the actions we need to take or are we in the process, know what’s going on, why it’s working or not working and the status that it is and if there are multiple approaches to the problem go well, this is option a, plan b, roadmap c. Walk through your ability to look at different solutions to this problem.